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To start off, I appreciate the community support I have received on the post about being behind. I am behind, and I can't prove it but does it matter? Achievement that feels shallow on paper FrancisTRᴅᴇᴠ (っ◔◡◔)っ FrancisTRᴅᴇᴠ (っ◔◡◔)っ FrancisTRᴅᴇᴠ (っ◔◡◔)っ Follow Jun 22 I am behind, and I can't prove it but does it matter? # discuss # community # mentalhealth # career 149 reactions 89 comments 4 min read I couldn't respond to every single one because of the overwhelming comments I have received! Rest assure, I will respond to each and every one of you and I am glad to be part of this community! With that said, I want to return the favor to the community about something important. I recently talked to @georgekobaidze and @codingwithjiro in the Virtual Coffee group about life in general. What I notice about our conversation how we ended up talking about regrets and how we should have done this and that. For example, we talked about not networking or not doing beyond the coursework at our University/College because of how non-social we are. Of course, we all have regrets like these and we improve overtime. As we kept the conversation going, there is something that comes down to the root based on the conversations we have and conversations I had overall. One side is that we have regrets and as a result, we improve. We self-reflect on our wants and needs and we improvise from there. For example, for me, I never did networking because of the fear of what other people thinks. I slowly realized that 99% of the irrational thoughts never comes true. Even if it does, I know myself that I could handle the situation. As a result, I took small steps and joined dev.to. We all know where I am at now XD On the other hand, there are people who identifies these regrets they have, but does not act on it. It has become common to college students who says that the "Job Market is Cooked" and that "They are not good enough". To be fair, impostor syndrome is real and yes, the job market is coo